{"id":692891,"date":"2026-05-16T20:47:04","date_gmt":"2026-05-16T20:47:04","guid":{"rendered":"https:\/\/microscopemedia.com\/?p=692891"},"modified":"2026-05-16T20:47:04","modified_gmt":"2026-05-16T20:47:04","slug":"altceva-masca-sau-caracter-suada-agachi-traseaza-linia-dintre-eticheta-si-manipulare","status":"publish","type":"post","link":"https:\/\/microscopemedia.com\/?p=692891","title":{"rendered":"\u201eAltceva\u201d \/ Masc\u0103 sau caracter? Suada Agachi traseaz\u0103 linia dintre etichet\u0103 \u0219i manipulare"},"content":{"rendered":"
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\u00cen cel mai recent episod al podcastului \u201eAltceva\u201d<\/a>,<\/span> jurnalistul Adrian Artene a purtat o conversa\u021bie revelatoare cu Suada Agachi, specialist\u0103 \u00een descifrarea limbajului non-verbal, a fizionomiei \u0219i a chiroman\u021biei.<\/p>\n

Una dintre temele atinse: c\u00e2t de departe putem merge \u00een a ne antrena un comportament, \u00een diverse contexte sociale.<\/p>\n

\u00centrebarea lui Artene a fost una practic\u0103, familiar\u0103 multora: putem \u00eenv\u0103\u021ba s\u0103 transmitem autoritate, siguran\u021b\u0103 sau c\u0103ldur\u0103 printr-o postur\u0103 studiat\u0103?<\/p>\n

Tenta\u021bia de a prezenta o versiune \u201e\u00eembun\u0103t\u0103\u021bit\u0103\u201d a noastr\u0103 e c\u00e2t se poate de real\u0103<\/h2>\n

Fie c\u0103 e vorba de un interviu de angajare, fie de o prim\u0103 \u00eent\u00e2lnire romantic\u0103, tenta\u021bia de a \u201epune \u00een scen\u0103\u201d o versiune mai bun\u0103 a noastr\u0103 e c\u00e2t se poate de real\u0103.<\/p>\n

Suada Agachi a r\u0103spuns cu o distinc\u021bie pe care pu\u021bini o fac: exist\u0103 o diferen\u021b\u0103 fundamental\u0103 \u00eentre eticheta \u0219i protocolul cultural, pe de o parte, \u0219i manipularea limbajului non-verbal al caracterului, pe de alt\u0103 parte.<\/p>\n

\u201eEtichet\u0103, protocol, cultural \u2013 e bine s\u0103 \u00eenve\u021bi ni\u0219te gesturi non-verbale, ce se face \u0219i ce nu se face\u201d, a explicat ea. \u201eNu-\u021bi sufli nasul \u00een Japonia de fa\u021b\u0103 cu cel\u0103lalt\u2026 Ajut\u0103 enorm s\u0103 \u00eenve\u021bi. \u0218i, da, po\u021bi s\u0103 ai mare succes.\u201d<\/p>\n

\u201eNu a\u0219 putea s\u0103 recomand asta\u201d<\/h2>\n

P\u00e2n\u0103 aici, totul pare rezonabil.<\/p>\n

Dar Suada traseaz\u0103 o linie clar\u0103 atunci c\u00e2nd vine vorba de a simula tr\u0103s\u0103turi de caracter \u2013 a p\u0103rea mai iubitor, mai puternic, mai carismatic dec\u00e2t e\u0219ti cu adev\u0103rat.<\/p>\n

\u201eCeea ce \u021bine de limbaj non-verbal \u00een a p\u0103rea, din punct de vedere al caracterului \u0219i al personalit\u0103\u021bii, altcineva mai iubitor, mai \u0219mecher, mai cum vrei tu, nu a\u0219 putea s\u0103 recomand \u0219i nici n-a\u0219 face asta\u201d, a spus ea f\u0103r\u0103 echivoc.<\/p>\n

\u201eCea mai mare risip\u0103 de energie\u201d<\/h2>\n

Argumentul Suadei nu este doar etic, ci \u0219i pragmatic.<\/p>\n

Construirea \u0219i men\u021binerea unei imagini false \u00een fa\u021ba celorlal\u021bi este, \u00een viziunea ei, o sarcin\u0103 epuizant\u0103 \u0219i, pe termen lung, imposibil de sus\u021binut.<\/p>\n

\u201e\u00ce\u021bi trebuie o memorie imens\u0103 s\u0103 nu ui\u021bi cine e\u0219ti, ce \u021bi-ai propus \u0219i ai vrut s\u0103 fii ast\u0103zi din nou \u00een ochiul acelui om\u201d, a atras ea aten\u021bia.<\/p>\n

C\u00e2nd Adrian Artene a rezumat ideea \u2013 \u201eS\u0103 p\u0103strezi \u00een minte toate acele poze, c\u0103 sunt poze\u201d \u2013 Suada a dezvoltat g\u00e2ndul cu o claritate dezarmant\u0103:<\/p>\n

\u201eMi se pare cea mai mare risip\u0103 de energie. \u00ce\u021bi trebuie tot timpul s\u0103 te remontezi cu imaginea pe care i-ai creat-o unui om din fa\u021ba ta.\u201d<\/p>\n

Altfel spus, energia pe care o investe\u0219ti \u00een a fi altcineva e energie furat\u0103 din a fi tu \u00eensu\u021bi.<\/p>\n

Ne\u00eemp\u0103cat cu lumea<\/h2>\n

Pentru c\u0103, \u00een cele din urm\u0103, ce este aceast\u0103 masc\u0103 dac\u0103 nu o \u201ene\u00eemp\u0103care cu sine\u201d?, sugereaz\u0103 Adrian Artene.<\/p>\n

Suada l-a corectat, \u00eens\u0103, cu bl\u00e2nde\u021be: \u201eNu, e ne\u00eemp\u0103cat cu lumea.\u201d<\/p>\n

E o distinc\u021bie important\u0103. Omul care se ascunde \u00een spatele unei imagini fabricate nu se ur\u0103\u0219te neap\u0103rat pe sine \u2013 ci nu accept\u0103 lumea ca pe un loc sigur, \u00een care s\u0103 apar\u0103 autentic.<\/p>\n

E o problem\u0103 de \u00eencredere, nu de identitate.<\/p>\n

Episodul integral poate fi urm\u0103rit pe canalele podcastului \u201eAltceva cu Adrian Artene\u201d, disponibil s\u0103pt\u0103m\u00e2nal.<\/p>\n","protected":false},"excerpt":{"rendered":"

\u00cen cel mai recent episod al podcastului \u201eAltceva\u201d, jurnalistul Adrian Artene a purtat o conversa\u021bie revelatoare cu Suada Agachi, specialist\u0103 \u00een descifrarea limbajului non-verbal, a fizionomiei \u0219i a chiroman\u021biei. Una … Read More<\/a><\/p>\n","protected":false},"author":1,"featured_media":692892,"comment_status":"closed","ping_status":"closed","sticky":false,"template":"Default","format":"standard","meta":[],"categories":[1],"tags":[],"_links":{"self":[{"href":"https:\/\/microscopemedia.com\/index.php?rest_route=\/wp\/v2\/posts\/692891"}],"collection":[{"href":"https:\/\/microscopemedia.com\/index.php?rest_route=\/wp\/v2\/posts"}],"about":[{"href":"https:\/\/microscopemedia.com\/index.php?rest_route=\/wp\/v2\/types\/post"}],"author":[{"embeddable":true,"href":"https:\/\/microscopemedia.com\/index.php?rest_route=\/wp\/v2\/users\/1"}],"replies":[{"embeddable":true,"href":"https:\/\/microscopemedia.com\/index.php?rest_route=%2Fwp%2Fv2%2Fcomments&post=692891"}],"version-history":[{"count":0,"href":"https:\/\/microscopemedia.com\/index.php?rest_route=\/wp\/v2\/posts\/692891\/revisions"}],"wp:featuredmedia":[{"embeddable":true,"href":"https:\/\/microscopemedia.com\/index.php?rest_route=\/wp\/v2\/media\/692892"}],"wp:attachment":[{"href":"https:\/\/microscopemedia.com\/index.php?rest_route=%2Fwp%2Fv2%2Fmedia&parent=692891"}],"wp:term":[{"taxonomy":"category","embeddable":true,"href":"https:\/\/microscopemedia.com\/index.php?rest_route=%2Fwp%2Fv2%2Fcategories&post=692891"},{"taxonomy":"post_tag","embeddable":true,"href":"https:\/\/microscopemedia.com\/index.php?rest_route=%2Fwp%2Fv2%2Ftags&post=692891"}],"curies":[{"name":"wp","href":"https:\/\/api.w.org\/{rel}","templated":true}]}}